[AnjaSweden]

I know a lot of people here like the idea of fighting much more than actually fighting. Some of you count a cyber fight as a fight because you get the satisfaction you want out of it. It’s not like that for me at all. I started fighting when I was a kid, in school, and I very fast realized that even when I hated the conflicts, I loved the fights. Eventually I started to love to conflicts as well, but only when they turned into physical confrontations. A bit later, next realization came. I’m addicted to fighting. It can’t be replaced by anything else. I can enjoy a cyber fight but it doesn’t, not even remotely, decreases my need to fight.
There’s something about the rivalry as well. I love building up the hate, I love fighting out of despite and jealousy. I have no idea why I’m like this. I just am. I need an enemy, I need a woman to be in war against me. Sometimes I see a woman I don’t even know and I wished we had a conflict. Can any of you relate to this? I would love to talk to someone who feels the same.

[sinclairfan]

I grew up in the 1970s and 1980s.  Compared to today, just because technology was so different, even if you had a cut-and-dried reason to fight a girl (such as, you and her were dating the same boy). it was SO MUCH WORK to make a fight happen.

If you and her went to the same school, fighting at school [or after school] was out--you would both ruin your future by getting expelled.  No chickfight is worth THAT.

And if you didn't go to the same school, then it was almost totally hopeless getting at the same time and same place as her.

Technology was this unbelievably hit-or-miss telephone now known as a "land line".  If you called her, chances were her parents would answer.  Sometimes, at age 17 or 18, girls could get their "own line" at home.  But the only way that worked is if you and her had private lines.

You could roam the same mall as her or get invites to parties she was at.  But chances were that her friends would be there with her and you'd get 5on1'd.

Fighting girls in your same neighborhood was easier to arrange.  But that made things awkward between the families.

So, fights happened.  But as much by accident as by design.

Girls today with Instagram and Snapchat and texting have it easier.  (At least, until Covid they did.)

[jessiefite]

I can relate, albeit for different reasons.  Since I was 15, I've felt a compulsion to fight that will not go away. When something fulfills a core need in your psyche, I guess most other considerations don't matter.  You still want it, still want to do it.

[DottiD]

a cyber fight will never replace a fight no matter the style, if you have a hunger to compete just chatting won't feed it, in fact in some cases a really good cyber can fuel that desire over ease it. Cyber can be used as a simple form of what you fantasize about doing in real life but if you ever went as far as some cybers go you might end up in court lol.

[Horny-Jew]

It is so sexy to read about and/or watch a catfight happen in a fantasy. but in actual real life (at least in the USA) it doesn't happen as there would be serious ramifications for the women involved. A catfight turns me sexually so much, but I never want to see the women get hurt.