Never go to any fight without my husband with me, there are times he and hers might sit in another room but otherwise front row with hers, Yes it adds to the over all emotion and adrenalin and desire to not just fight but win naturally goes without say or question, but the down side is to lose as he watches and suffer the stakes (if any) agreed on, and in kind its amazing to look up and see his smile and nod as i beat my opponent, have had times with her and mine and a few other cats watch but using irl referrals is part of that as well