Hi, Guys,
As a catfight lover, do you ever try to make extramarital affair, so that your wife & mistress/girlfriend will someday face each other & quarrel enough to have a catfight?
Or, do you make 2 relationship at a time, so that 2 girlfriend of you will quarrel & do a catfight?
Anyone go through it?
That's "trying too hard", and in any event violates the discretion Girl #2 showed into letting the affair heat up.
INSTEAD, consider two alternatives:
<> If an ex goes from being unavailable to suddenly being available (thru a breakup/divorce, a job change, a change in outlook, etc), well, all of a sudden she might be open to things she wasn't before.
<> If you find yourself with 2 residences (say, a hometown and a college town; or are a Snow Bird with a winter home and a summer home), who says Girl-from-residence-A will never cross paths with Girl-from-residence-B?