Thanks for the comments all! Just doing our best to keep our identities as anonymous as possible. I've responded to a few messages but here's the gist: We're in our late 30s and have kept this "fetish", if you were to call it, mainly to ourselves. This is an opportunity for us to explore and converse with other like-minded couples. Truly looking for my wife to be able to engage in dialogue with another woman or couple. If it doesn't lead anywhere, there's always next time. Probably not looking for anything beyond a friendly/semi-competitive wrestling match. She's stated that mud/jello wrestling at venues is out of the question since anything can make it on the Internet these days. As for stats, she's 5'3", 130lbs.