Complete agreement with you H.G. An occasional loss by S.O. is a guilty pleasure, and keeps things interesting. I (and my S.O. says winning is better, we both enjoy the aftermath of a loss...I love giving and she loves getting the extra attention, through all the aftercare...comforting, care, confidence rebuilding, and knowing that she is my queen and I am in her corner regardless of the outcome...because like you say it is all good.
I just got the impression from several comments I thought you had posted where you were rooting for the other to win and if that was the case I was wondering why since it would differ from my own preference a bit. Just interested in a different perspective. Thanks again for sharing all the great content you have added to this forum.