Interesting topic. Talking about my experiences only, some fights, not all, start because neither of us really want this,but after the taunts and things start neither can back down. We both want to, hope the other will at some point, but let me tell ya, its hard to walk away. When the first slap, punch, kick, whatever it is starts, there are times we both are glad someone pulls us apart. I can tell ya the minute hair starts being pulled some of the original anger no longer exists, its a fight for pride.