It wasn't my hubbies idea or push at all, I have 4 sisters and had my share of real life fights (no not really with them) what got me started was when i was dancing and I filled in for a private party with another woman, after the "show" her and i talked since we had never worked together before and she explained what a breast fight was and we spoke more about past fights and so on after teaching me how a breast fight goes and a few "practice" matches with her and how to go about finding others into it it started me on this path, plus i already was doing oil,shaving cream and jello wrestling so it didn't take long to realize i loved competing without getting my face and boobs seriously clawed up lol, i use to go to the internet to expand my opponents but after some disappointments, meeting wackos and women who liked to be beat up, i found someone who uses a referral way to get opponents and it basically is for every woman i meet we both know at least 1 other who engages as long as you have a good reputation and some what friendly you get your name passed on to others you know and gain contacts, i have nothing but quality matches and safe and secure, my hubby does attend all he has gladly taken the role of driver, body guard, and fan