I guess that I have been fortunate in my life....as I have had many mixed matches. If you look at the pics on my profile, those are actual pics of a couple of matches I have had (photos were taken by her spouse).
My matches have been with doms, session wrestlers, and just plain women folk that were into wrestling and were interested in rasslin with a guy in a safe environment.
I have even had opportunities to have had matches with some of the women that post on this forum.
I can tell you that the matches were fun...and in many cases...hard fought. When I was younger, I wrestled with many session wrestlers, but as I got older, shifted my focus to the non-session recreational wrestlers. Spouses were always welcome. Women choose rules and attire.
Even at my age today, I still look for matches. And while I remain hopeful that a couple of the women that frequent this forum would be interested in a match...I really dont "bet my paycheck" so to speak, of that ever happening....lol.
I can say that I have met a lot of wonderful folks as I pursued my "hobby"..as I liked to call it. I have a lot of fond memories, and made some long and lasting friendships.