I think I may have a solution that will allow creative freedom while helping filter out possible offensive material. Many sites have developed abbreviations for different subject matters, and those are listed at the top of the story. If done correctly then it doesn't give away to much of the story. And if something in the story isn't your cup of tea, then you can avoid it. After all, these stories are works of fantasy, intended to help us realize something that may not be possible in the real world. Everyone has a right to there kink. I understand the sexist and violence against woman concerns, but true feminism is about equality of the sexes. If I fight in a mixed match, then I assume some fantasized risk. I could get hurt, lose and even humiliated. That's why we are hear - it's role playing.
Also, something of note - japan consumes the largest amount of pornography of all the countries in the world, much or it depicting forced sexual acts and degradation of women, e.g. That wierd ass bukaki shit. Yet japan has the lowest level of rape of all the industrialized nations. Further research seems to suggest that pornography, in terms of rates of sexual assaults, helps. So I choose not to criticize or judge.
And finally, I don't think we are going to have to much trouble with men beating women. They are all jobbers here anyway, begin for us to sit on their faces, isn't that right boys. Hehehe
Let me know if I can be some help with develop a fight subject material key. I would to contribute.
Heather