[karl butters]

      Recently someone posted a story involving the victor peeing into the loser’s mouth and this had created a polarizing reaction from people posting comments.  Many were totally turned off by it, while others liked it.  Many years ago, I would have been turned off by it, but now I am fine with it.  I’ve seen several videos on YouTube involving girls peeing their pants during a fight and was surprised when I discovered that it turned me on. 
      The first time I was ever sexually aroused was in elementary school.  I was watching Linda Carter as Wonder Woman being roughed up by a female Nazi spy.  My love of Superheroines being beaten has been a constant attraction for me, but my other interests have changed. 
       During middle school and high school, I loved picturing our school cheerleaders being beat up by various tough girls.  One girl that I always had a crush on in school was a cheerleader named Amy.  Like Wonder Woman, she was dark headed and very virtuous.  Amy attended church every Sunday, never cursed, drank alcohol, smoked, or partied.  One day, Amy came by my math classroom in her cheerleader outfit, selling spirit ribbons.  A tough girl named Kim mumbled that she would like to beat Amy’s ass.  She hated Amy because she believed the cheerleader was a goody-two-shoes who thought she was better than everyone else.  I was so turned on thinking about them fighting, I couldn’t concentrate on my work for the rest of class. 
   After graduating, my thinking changed, and I became more interested in tough girls being beaten by seemingly weaker girls.  I still love a good upset, where the favorite is soundly beaten.
   Like the peeing thing, I used to be stay away from Mom fight stories and did not find them sexy in the least.  But now, I have embraced Mom stories and find them a huge turn on.  Considering my original love of Wonder Woman, it is not surprising, because who makes a better superheroine than a mom.
   I also used to shy away from violent stories, but now I don’t mind some bloodshed, just no disfigurements or death.  I want my women to still be sexy when the story ends.
   The point in my ramblings is not to promote open-mindedness, but to remind people that tastes change.  You may not like stories involving peeing now, but it doesn’t mean you won’t in the future. 

[jessiefite]

I am fairly certain I will never be changing over to someone who approves of excretion into the mouths of others.
That said, I have learned over the years not to be judgmental about what consenting adults might do and enjoy
in the privacy of their own places and course of their own activities.  Its not my place to approve or disapprove if
I am not a participant.  Live and let live.  Viva la difference!

[LQQKING4CATFIGHTER]

  I always focused on the fighting and never watched the post fight humilation of loser by winner, but then ended up watching one of Dragonlily's RD 4 at US and was amazed at how much I enjoyed Dragonlily walking the loser around the mats by her hair and then making her worship her feet and leaving her in tears at the end.

[dfoulup]

I have to agree with Karl that over time one's preferences change.  I'm not saying I like what he likes just that my preferences have changed over the years.  I used to like just a nice clean fight.  Now most of my fantasy fights end with some sort of sexual interaction. Maybe it is just the dirty-old-man in me but my preferences are different now.  (Of course I've been following this stuff for a lot longer than most of you have been on this earth!)

[linftr]

What a refreshingly intelligent discussion. (obviously of interest to me)  Incredibly, I got into the whole catfight fantasy when I was learning about computers in the early nineties and a girlfriend showed me 'pro wrestling' cyber fights on aol.  It is amazing how I have migrated to different interests over the years.  I have zero interest in pro style now, and have gotten progressively 'kinkier' as I age.  Mere fights don't excite me now, unless there is a back story.  Having a scenario makes all the difference between blah and rapt attention.

I suppose that as we age, we have different triggers, or we are jaded by things we have seen many times.  However, from first to last, someone trading on my turf for job, family or man will always set me off.

[CDSouthWrestler]

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As Lin said as people change so do the needs that they started with within the fetish, there is an example I use which I call the Beef and Mustard sandwich paradox in that in oprder to maintain the picquancy of the sandwich you have to keep adding more and more mustard to it in order to keep the taste fresh, then one time the beef is missing and all you have left is the mustard.

Within the fetish the taste for stimulation changes and because you've seen this or that before several times then it can become vanilla so you move onto something that provokes the same emotional reaction as before, it's not judgmental just a way that humans develop their own immediate stimuli and why you shouldn't decry others for what they like just because you are uneasy with it, the only exceptions as far as I am concerned involve matters such as Paedophilia and other subjects where the law explicitly states that the material is illegal.

[Stunning Steph]

Ultimately I guess people's tastes will change over time, as a kid I didn't like cooked cheese now Pizza Hut is a great treat.


When it comes to kinks, turn ons and sexual preferences I don't think people get to pick what 'works for them' with that said that doesn't mean that it's going to be healthy or widely accepted, necrophilia being a great example (a sentence I never thought I would say).


I can definitely see the appeal of humiliating a beaten opponent and exerting your dominance over them afterwards that is something I've done before but in terms of what you've described that really doesn't do anything positive for me, it's a pretty massive turn off.