[Die For Dina]

I'm a deathfight fan in cyber, but I'm often the first person on these boards to step up and defend the dignity and safety of women doing this stuff in real life. An extreme fantasy is an extreme fantasy, but even online, I'd sooner chew off my own arm than upset or hurt someone who's not into it.

I used to agonize about my kink, but now I've found a group of mostly very kind and loving people who get off on this fantasy in a safe and consensual way. In fact, many of them are the most kind and ethical people I know online. I'll be honest, I fall half in love with a lot of them because I can see that they face their dark side head on, and in their real interactions with people are VERY kind and ethical.

So, yeah... it might not be how you think.

[TheRef]

I've got the person you're responding to blocked on every forum and board he shows up on, and stopped going to one story site because he's been given free reign to attack anyone and everyone there. Best to block and move on as everyone else was behaving like adults.

How does one block a user on this board?

[DottiD]

It is sad to read or hear this happens, it really doesn't take much for that discouragement to be felt, it might not be one text or post to that fighter but a bunch of things that just built up frustration and disappointment till that one last post the fighters said "Enough".

I think if we add in the last year and the restrictions and no one really doing much real life, it probably just made her explode , hopefully a break and no contact she can clear her head and realize these people are just jealous and have a need to bash those they can't be or have , jealousy is in many forms but hate is the worse, we all need to doubly efforts for each other ho do this as pro or not and keep the chin up an fight going

[clandestino]

I can guarantee you that many of the January 6 protestors have been so twisted around by social media that they thought they were storming the Capitol anonymously.

Rich

 

[jessiefite]

It is sad to read or hear this happens, it really doesn't take much for that discouragement to be felt, it might not be one text or post to that fighter but a bunch of things that just built up frustration and disappointment till that one last post the fighters said "Enough".

I think if we add in the last year and the restrictions and no one really doing much real life, it probably just made her explode , hopefully a break and no contact she can clear her head and realize these people are just jealous and have a need to bash those they can't be or have , jealousy is in many forms but hate is the worse, we all need to doubly efforts for each other ho do this as pro or not and keep the chin up an fight going

I would like to think that we fighters have very thick skin.  After all, if you are confident in yourself, your personal mental status is not going to be dependent upon how you are viewed by others.  But they can sure screw up your mood.

With that said, it is always preferable to have people communicate with you in a pleasant manner, even if the content of the communication is potentially negative.  Again, its how you communicate more than what you communicate. Being mean spirited will generate a defensive response in the recipient.  I've been told some awful things in a respectful manner, and I deal with it.  I don't feel "attacked."  And then there are those who "attack" and make us regret talking with them at all.  So, no matter what you are going to say, be pleasant, respectful and understand the recipient has feelings.

[DottiD]

As fighters we do have "thicker skin" but lets be real here we are still people and what might get under our skin one day won't for months and so on, just saying maybe her life hit a snag, maybe a few to many losses , to much ridicule her finances took a hit who knows it wasn't just one little comment that caused a huge thing it was a million little building that wall, we all go through it just the degrees are different and how or what point it can't be handled anymore even if a burst of anger in a second