Our collar and elbow has turned into a dead heat. Both of us are breathing, heart rates are up and there is no sign of one moving the other another inch so I decide to break things up - or try. I can still go a little lower so I do, trying to make my opponent think she is winning this. When she pushes, I twist my shoulders, back and hips, moving my right shoulder in and pulling my right arm free. As I do, I slide my right arm under Gabi's and into her armpit. Trying to keep moving, not wanting her to block my attempt, I shove my right hip into her body, bend and pull her arm with a snap, hoping to get her up and over in a sort of arm drag/hip toss takedown and to her back. That would make a statement!