for me personally, I will straddle her making her look up at me and the crowd or who ever is watching, my fist balled up ready or claws at the ready, her arm twisted either up behind her or under my knee and at least one hand deep in her hair to bounce her head off the ground, as i ask maybe 2 times "you done or you give" if i don't hear it in that time frame she gets hit or scratched, sometimes i'll slap her face . I have gone as far to rip her top open but if i am in that much control I want her to be so sore the next day,coming back for more is the last thing she will ever want to do. lastly if she i leave her on her stomach i sometimes add a kick to her ass as i walk away once she gives up