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Understanding why we like catfights

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Offline popadoc4

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #15 on: April 14, 2023, 10:58:46 PM »
Born with it sounds right for me too. Girls fighting would excite my mind long before it was possible to excite me physically.   At my age  in the distant past any little spat would suffice,  but with the explosion of material both real and produced  it’s possible to pick and choose.    In real fights I hate to see blood and would never wish to see anyone hurt.   In wrestling it has to be competitive.  Two girls going through the motions is as much of a turn off as two ladies really trying to beat each is a turn on.

I agree completely, the wrestling has to be competitive! That's what I like about DWW, ASFILM, Festelle. Hard to find anything made like that now.

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Offline lumberjack66

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #16 on: April 18, 2023, 01:55:59 AM »
I think the psychologists explanation that women wrestling or fighting is close to sex is wrong.  My evidence is if we had the chance to see lesbians having sex or watching two women fight we are going to pick the two women fighting.  Of course not all guys are going to do that so maybe there is some crossover from the guys that watch lesbians, but I would say we are a unique and fairly specific fetish.  I have always thought it is a combination of our animal instinct and early sexual experiences.  In my case, long before I saw any pictures of naked women or porn, I saw pictures in magazines of women fighting, gorgeous women in movies and TV fighting, and actual girls fighting.  Those were formative experiences.  For guys who didn't have those experiences perhaps there is something else.  I think what is especially interesting is how into catfights women are.  I think they live a bit vicariously through the fighters themselves and it is a HUGE release.  They are so used to sniping at each other or battling socially that having the ability to actually confront your rival I think is freeing.
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Offline F4UCORSAIR

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #17 on: April 18, 2023, 04:04:50 AM »
  This is a very interesting topic of conversation as I have asked myself WHY for years. It goes back to a very early age for me,the origins of which  I can not pinpoint.

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Offline Josephinex

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #18 on: April 18, 2023, 11:10:03 PM »
These contributions are great, thanks again to everyone

I find Bear's answer very interesting. I knew many combative/competitive women in my formative years so maybe it could provide some answer in my case but might not be for everyon

For straight guys, IMHO there is a connection between this fetish and a strong, competitive perhaps combative woman in your past -- most likely your very early years.  Could be an aunt, a sister, but most likely Mom.  I'm no social scientist by any means, but over the years I've read lots and lots of posts, and it seems to me that guys who are into this have this characteristic in common.  That was a good enough explanation for me, and I've found considerable peace in this rationalization. 

Also, we seem to have amazing memories.  I doubt that this is connected in some way, but it certainly appears to be true.     

As far as the type of competition that one prefers, well that my well have to do with the kind of relationship that you had with that woman.

It seems that a lot of us have this interest vert early, which is interesting. Does anyone know a person who got into it later in life?

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Offline jon222

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #19 on: April 21, 2023, 04:13:08 PM »
I have analyzed the psychology of it
Myself and did alot of reading and came to this conclusion. It has to do with the selecting a mate process. As humans we are prewired to choose a mate that will be the strongest gene pool to further spread our seed. I think many guys are interested in catfights cause it defines who the superior woman is. Personally I always find myself more attracted to the lady who wins her fight

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Offline rin753

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #20 on: April 22, 2023, 02:41:36 AM »
As humans we are prewired to choose a mate that will be the strongest gene pool to further spread our seed.

No we aren't.  We are prewired to chose a mate we find most attractive.

"Let's see, Beyonce or Queen Kong?  Think I'll go with Beyonce."

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Offline jon222

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #21 on: April 22, 2023, 10:57:48 PM »
Lol. Try reading a little more. Called survival of the fittest. They teach it in elementary school

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #22 on: April 23, 2023, 02:55:39 AM »
Lol. Try reading a little more. Called survival of the fittest. They teach it in elementary school

Survival of the fittest has little to do with mate selection.

Sexual selection is based on the struggle to reproduce rather than the struggle to survive. Peacocks with extravagant tails will have more children, since they are more successful at attracting a mate.

No male lion ever said "I'm gonna fuck that lioness because she's the fastest runner."

No guy was ever attracted to an ugly woman compared to a beautiful one simply because she could bench press more. 

You tell me to read a little more.  Well you seem to have a rudimentary knowledge of Darwin's ORIGIN OF THE SPECIES (1859) but complete ignorance of THE DESCENT OF MAN AND SELECTION IN RELATION TO SEX (1871)

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Offline jon222

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #23 on: April 23, 2023, 07:18:33 PM »
Survival of the fittest also speaks to the unconscious desire for men to spread their seed with the strongest offspring possible to pass down the dna. That plays into sexual selection

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #24 on: April 23, 2023, 07:32:10 PM »
Survival of the fittest also speaks to the unconscious desire for men to spread their seed with the strongest offspring possible to pass down the dna. That plays into sexual selection

No, it speaks to males spreading their seed to the most possible mates. As Darwin states mating is about quantity not quality.

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Offline jon222

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #25 on: April 23, 2023, 08:24:35 PM »
So it looks were equal do you think most guys would prefer a lady who loses her catfights or one who wins?  I think most guys would prefer the lady who wins her catfights. Disagree?

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Offline rin753

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #26 on: April 23, 2023, 08:35:35 PM »
So it looks were equal do you think most guys would prefer a lady who loses her catfights or one who wins?  I think most guys would prefer the lady who wins her catfights. Disagree?

The desirability of a woman based upon how good a fighter she is, is quite frankly, ridiculous.

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #27 on: April 23, 2023, 09:25:42 PM »
Cool and I think your view is ridiculous. Nice talk

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #28 on: April 23, 2023, 09:31:28 PM »


Did you see Kathy Bates beat the crap our of Olivia Culpo?  That Bates is one sexy mama!

Yikes!

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Offline Josephinex

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Re: Understanding why we like catfights
« Reply #29 on: April 23, 2023, 11:20:11 PM »
Personally I want the fighter I find more attractive to win, tho I am more interested in the competition itself rather than the result. I am ok with a draw between equals n i think i prefer that result

tho I don't think I can agree with the survival of the fittest argument but doesn't mean that it doesn't have merit for some people