Hi @all,
I wonder or guess if there are combatitive/comparing games/playfights between future mothers.
I know the fact that no mother will endanger their unborn child. And that is
very honorable.
But think about the case of two combative women which will get pregnant. As a man i don't know about
the different feelings of a pregnant woman. But would it be possible that two
women are willing to find a way to "fight" each other in a slow and sensitive way? In my mind it would be a very intimate situation between the two women. Intensive but annoying feelings about the other mother but ever considered about the babie's safety.
For example both bellies were tried to each other by stroking the other's belly or just get belly contact while working on the other woman's nipples.
Maybe someone of you is interested in inventing such playforms between future mothers.
A friend of mine had an intimate sex "fight" while pregnant. I put fight in quotations because they weren't trying to hurt each other or endanger their unborn child. I believe they were mostly rubbing each other with oil or Vaseline on their hands to get slick, pregnant bellies touching occasionally because according to her, when her navel was sticking out it was very sensitive. Really they were just trying to twist tits, slap faces(if I remember correctly, she said they wore mouthguards so if one ejected it they'd know the other was done fighting). Their was even using hands to rub or massage the pussy.
Hi Jen,
it would be nice to hear more about the way to this "confrontation". Especially the circumstances feelings and relation betwenn the two protagonists which finally lead to a "fight" , i will stay by that term too of course i know what you mean. IT is and will remain a struggle, even with the few resources or actions available.
In Germany i think a good plattform will be birth preparation courses to meet other women or couples. Some you like and some you don't like. I don't know how other countries handles birth preparations. But in Germany in that courses you are always confronted with other women/couples. And the bellies will be shown in the group because of the favored "your husband will paint your body" game. So each one in that course is confronted with nude bellies. The hisbands can compare and the women will do naturaly.
So that could be the opener for a rivalry between pregnants. If there are some excersises which puts couples together without any classic constellations of just only husband and wife there is a big ground for pregnant female rivalries. Some women match and have big sympathy. Some won't and that's the point the leading woman of the course could bring two women together to a sexual confrontation, leaded by the teaching women.
When i rember to my wife while she was pregnant i observed a high sense for everything what could bring her businees mixed up. She would not be the only one who have such fine antennas during her pregnancy. I conclude that pregnant women will be more "catty" than others and the potential of a confrontation is more given.
When two pregnant women decide to get into such a rivalry during her status it is sure they will compete directly in the ways which will be able for them. Slow, safe but clear in the message to the other one both women will build the ground to the fight they will realy have after their babies were born. And that confrontation after pregnancy is unavoidable.
In my mind that feelings, tensions and antipathy will lead to the case that women during her pregnancy will also competing and "fighting" each other when it is needed. Sure, her babies in view, they will behave in one way but will use the given borders to go at each other in awaiting the big post pregnancy fight. And this one will taking place.
