So it is agreed, that I think most men would rather see a sensual physical wrestling, grapling match, then a bloody, destructive, vicious damaging fight.....if it involves women they truly care about, or love. If it is two women, that you have no attachment to, then a violent, heated, killer destructive fight might be stimulating and exciting in it's intensity and animal nature. Like people enjoyed fights to the death in the Colliseum. Just like so many of us gawk at accidents on the side of a highway, there is that dark side, that enjoys blood lust and violence. I enjoy boxing and MMA fights too, watching trained, highly skilled combatants taking each other systematically apart. BUT......when it involves women I care about, I do not want violence, I do not want damage. The sensuality of women trying to dominate another female with her body is so hot. YES, we came up with these rules, to more or less keep the women safe from real harm, and it was fantasy driven for the men who watched it. The missing piece is, these women really enjoyed it too....on many levels. They enjoyed the competition. They enjoyed the body to body contact. They really enjoyed winning. They mostly enjoyed turning their man, and the other men on! IT was a FANTASY for them too! It was not just about turning the men on...for just the men's sake, but in doing this....it really turned the women on! EVERYBODY WINS. The losing female always got a chance for revenge, even if it took a couple of times, so she could taste victory too! So losers got to win....at least a little! What is better than that.....everyone gets turned on, gets excited, and gets their needs met! PERFECT!