If we are genuine fans of fem/fem combat in its many forms, then Renee and the Catfight Haven are truly worthy of our support based upon their longevity and overall body of work.
If we are genuine supporters of Renee as a catfighter and her wonderful personal contributions to our enjoyment and our fantasies, then we need to make a purchase, not simply talk about how much we enjoyed her past efforts.
And if we truly care about Renee and her family as people who have made a positive impact on us and who helped move the industry to its current level of awareness and accessibility, then we need to make relatively regular purchases from their video store in the face of a situation forced upon them by some sanctimonious arbiters of what should be "allowed" in this world. The First Amendment comes to mind, but I digress.
We applaud the moderators for their stand on trades instead of purchases. (Of course we would - we are also a producer.) And we would suggest that here is another situation requiring our community to stand up, take notice and ACT when we know what is right.
Based on a very narrow and self-righteous perspective, one of our own has basically been threatened and her family held for ransom: she has been told by "the powers that be" (either directly or by inference) that she has to remove herself and all references to herself from the accessible world. If she doesn't her family will be subject to financial uncertainty. Wow!!
Each of us in our relatively small community now has a personal decision to make: do we do nothing (and by doing so agree with the persecutors that Renee and her family are deserving of the pain so inflicted) or do we make purchases from the Catfight Haven video store as our finances allow us, and in doing so help support a family that has provided us so much encouragement and enjoyment over the past many years.
An email to Renee expressing support is probably a good thing to do. An email confirming a purchase and offering future support is probably even better.
Make your choice. Live with your conscience. We have. Either way, God bless you - that's what Renee would say. She's one of a kind.