I never said it was ALL the parenting but it starts there, home life is the first line of action, as far as the government comment, I have no idea how that plays into this, other than thinking they force what they deem important on us, so rather than making it a political mash up I agree you rube is playing Cover your ass (meaning theirs), and frankly it may piss us off but if we were in their shoes I am sure we would be out o do the same, that said I also feel America is a lot more scared or maybe snobish? on fetishes and sex as compared to say Europe, everything the masses don't agree with is taboo including the female fight scene, look how long it took to put Women in combat, eventually fighting will peak from the shadow openly over shh style it is, but rest assure the gaming commissions and betting tables will want a cut, then you tube will have a policy change I feel
When I was about 7 years old, my mother (my old technically wasn't an absentee, but not a participant either) signed me up for a summer camp organized by the company she worked for. One day, it may have a weekend during the weeklong stay, we played a soccer game and the other team beat us badly. Like 7 to nil badly, so I threw a tantrum. You don't have to wonder where I'm going with this. Despite what libertarians want to make us believe, who personally never or not really have lived outside their own community, people's thinking in larger groups isn't one of a benevolent green giant, but a tantrum throwing kid, where the role of a chaperon must be filled. So where you see something forced upon you, it very well might just be the inclusion of people previously unheard.
America, the beautiful has a lot of issues, one of them is rarely and barely listening to the other. It's a tactic that only works because they don't share land with others. Similar nations towing that line erupted two world wars. May I remind myself, they did it over the debate whether they should trade or have wars. Spoiler alert, Europe's answer is usually war. Weeks ago I have included a fictional world scenario where Brexit was already finalized and the violence on the Irish island restarted again. Last week, in reality, with not even a signed deal in hand, violence has restarted. I don't study human nature for nothing.
One of the tricks spin doctors want people to believe that this situation now is new. Well, it's not. John Carpenter's ex-wife, who herself was a go-go girl in a mafia bar has heavily campaigned together with her husband to direct and play in stories that are more human centric. For example, the very hot fight in True Lies does not serve the plot and the story could survive without it. In contrast, the fight in Crimson Peak was unavoidable as the antagonist was a deranged killer. Heck, Whip it works as a whole because it shows women deal with everyday issues on the skating rink when they turn frustration into violence. Wanting to hear out those we wish to have portrayed costs us but time.
Which is where Deep Throat comes in. The faux modest and sanctimonious community, in line with "premarital sex is a sin" have successfully banned theaters from Broadway under the true pretense that patrons support child prostitution and hard drugs. Yet some of those theaters have shown Swedish, Austrian, Italian and German movies, comedies, crime fiction with an erotic twist. Like Debbie does Dallas, Deep Throat also had a plot. In this era, as the example of Caligula shows, following the sexual revolution, mainstream embraced erotic film making and big name stars played in these movies. Should also sound logical since sex is a natural part of life.
A decade later, a very important heated debate happened that split women, and not in a sexual way. The star of Deep Throat has become the key witness of anti-sex feminists (they are the same ones who ganged up with Evangelicals to demand condoms on movie sets in California while filming action). Their goal was to prove that porn is by design exploitation where satisfaction can't be earned, thus should be banned. On the other side, pro-sex women said, lesbians and bisexuals also need agency, therefore lesbian porn is essentially both for satisfaction and representation. It's not easy to make judgment over the former porn star's metoo moment, not because she has become a devout Christian (like, remember, Betty Page too) rather because later on she claim the anti-sex camp used her without compensation. Needless to say, the "compromise" at the time was that educational movies can be erotic, which led to the hilarity, shown in glorious form in the episodes by the Cinema Snob, that sly producers tacked on "educational scenes" between action to sell it, until that loophole was closed.
The second key problem, as I referenced it to fightfanatic is having a narrow view on critical mass. Pentecoastals, Evangelicals, Mormons and Presbyterians have so brutal Old Testament views on sex that they have practically become a state within a state, where a major goal is to push their views on others. This is corroborated by the many laws they sponsor. We otherly or non-believers have smaller victories, like that since 3 weeks ago, New Hampshire no longer allows prepubescent teens to marry way older people. Hell, autocorrect thought I want to write merry. The true horror is how many Americans are oblivious that this is still a real thing, a guy knocks up a kid and to avoid shame, they marry their kid off to him with the judge's consent (in fairness, in 2001 a 27-year old woman married an 11-year old boy).
Yet this is the crowd they have to appease, because religious conservatives are the Borg Collective. This is topped by a group of executives, usually men, who like this setup, for two reasons: one it's mass producible and two, it doesn't need to change. This is why socialism was a social system, not an economic one. It's about "finding the right people" to produce sub par stuff so long your demands are met. No joke, the East German secret service had a porn battalion of about a 100-120 men and women under direction to shoot cheap porn that imitates American productions. It was such a well guarded secret, not even ordinary goons knew about it existed.
That leads me to finally how the "secret honeypot" met the mob. There are certain fetishes, like catfights, where people feel secrecy is part of so strongly that they actually want capping access to it. I worked customer services, I know that Disney's product of princes and princesses work because to the contrary what many openly claim, they like to be pampered, to be treated like royalty. This is why express check-ins and extra legrooms exist. The situation is way more complex than just one villain, and the gaps between our communities is so great that a singular solution is not satisfactory. A solution still needs to be found. This is because the downside of secrecy is that it has a big enough veil to hide wrongdoings, may they be against performers or customers. I support us having a bigger exposure with plot related fights and sex scenes, as even within the fetish community we're often the Appalachians and it is not meant as a compliment.
