[ChandieBee]

Hi!

So, as the subject line states, I'm new here. Semi-new to catfights. My boyfriend, specifically, is into catfights, and I want to learn more about it and be a supportive, participative partner! We watch videos together, we talk about it. I even hired a professional to have a catfight with back in December- which I genuinely enjoyed. I think my kinks fall in specifically within the physical act of catfighting, so that works for both my boyfriend and I.
I guess what I need help with is... I don't know, let me put it this way; my turn ons are easily assuaged. He can push my buttons during sex, so I'm wondering how I can push his as well? Pardon my naivety- how would I use dirty talk? Talking about a fictional catfight, maybe?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

[ChandieBee]

Thanks!

Yeah, I've sent him little stories here and there, and currently, I'm combing the internet for catfight gifs. I like to send them to him while he's at work, or if I'm in another room and want his attention lol. In general, I'm pretty shy, and I can tell he wants me to be a little more forward in regards to his kink. And I'm trying because I absolutely love how open he is about it, and I want to be able to share in that with him. That's why, for Christmas, I hired a professional to wrestle with. We met with her at hotel, she let him take pictures, she was super awesome about the whole thing considering that I'm a newbie and everything. This is up my alley too, because I'm also a performance artist, and I get to put on a show haha
But yeah! That's great advice! I'll try these out!

[Horny-Jew]

Enjoy this site. Just make sure neither you nor your opponent ever gets physically hurt.

[wolf359]

Quite the lucky boyfriend, I'll add.

My girlfriend has also indulged my fetish and one way in particular sticks out.

Prior to fooling around, she went into the bathroom, played an audio clip of a 'catfight' that included some trash talking and cursing...

And then emerged into the bedroom, sporting a ripped open blouse, one boob popped out, disheveled hair and some strategically placed lipstick on her chest to mimic scratch marks.

Needless to say, I was one very happy camper as she told me all about the fight and "showed" me the evidence. These girls are keepers!

(There have also been the fantasy scenarios in the bedroom where she'll talk about a particular girl she saw in the laundry room, or at a store and will tell me what happened)

[FeliciaKatUK]

He’ll love you just chatting about fighting, if he’s anything like my fella.

Just be careful he doesn’t get obsessed with it, it’ll spoil your relationship.

Don’t be afraid to have a rules catfight for real. Not just for him, but for you. It’s a real kick and fantastic stress relief

[ChandieBee]

Oh, man- thank you for all the supportive replies! I wasn't really sure what to expect- this is fantastic!
Im really excited to start utilizing the advice you guys have given me- and since I have the acting background, I'm thinking I can start writing skits, and maybe recruiting folks to 'perform' them with me, so to speak? And yeah, The obsession bit- I was a little concerned with that at the beginning. But that's just due to my ex's. They had other "button" and whatnot, and they'd become fixated. My boyfriend indulges in my kinks as well, so I'm also pretty lucky! And our kinks kind of meet in the middle. He likes catfights- hairpulling is a trigger. I like getting my hair pulled. I actually just kind of like pain in general. So, I had arranged the catfight for him to observe, and there was plenty of hair pulling and some pain. The other girl left bruises, and I like the physical reminder of things so- I think my boyfriend and I have found a partner, in each other, that can really respect and participate in the other's kinks- guys, thank you so much!

[DottiD]

I do real life and cyber and write about fights, m husband enjoys reading my stuff but at times as we watch tv shows he will or i will ask “could i take that actress and how would it go” it is often a little kinky foreplay and our go to opponent. For me is Sophia Vergara , yes i would love taking her o as much as he wants to see that lol, but use your instinct on it play with it ask who dreams of you facing, you both are past the awkward stage of revealing the fetish and accepting it so run with it , besides no one gets hurt in imagination land .

[FeliciaKatUK]

he will or i will ask “could i take that actress and how would it go” it is often a little kinky foreplay and our go to opponent. For me is Sophia Vergara , yes i would love taking her o as much as he wants to see that lol, .

Funnily enough I think you’ve become my fellas wish list opponent for me Dotti...

[snw]

My gf at the time found out about my female competition wrestling,catfight, even an arm wrestling match turns me on when it’s two hot girls competing. She found out as a result of a face to face run in with a ex gf. I wasn’t there but she told me about it. Asking what happen gave me a lead in as to asking what she thought may happen if it had come to blows. As we talked she felt my excitement and asked what caused that. I told her and she would tell me stories of fighting my ex. She used other girls as well but by far and away her talking about my ex was what really got me going. Likely as I had been intimate with both. She’d put on a bikini lots of times and walk in the living room telling me she was getting ready to kick the bitches ass. She’d start flexing her muscles as if she was comparing her body and muscles while I felt them . At first she always won in a one sided fashion.

           As time went we married and she began more back and forth fights with her which was even hotter. Well she found a story I had written about them fighting and in the story my ex won the fight. At first she questioned why and it was just something other than the same thing as always. Plus it gave me the chance to tend to her wounds once she’d lost. It made it so much more realistic and hot not knowing who she would pick to win. Being we were together so long and she knew and understood it was fantasy she told me the stories about my ex. It was just something about she was fighting a girl I had no trouble imagining them going at it. Though while she didn’t mind using an ex I can see how girls might not feel comfortable doing so especially if the y were on the losing in. It did make it sooooo much better story.  I can say this the trust has to be there . She’d also ask me questions about what I was thinking during the fight. Like who was winning , or who I thought would win. Just a few ideas that I know for a fact was the hottest thing for me short of the real deal. Better than the real deal though as no one was hurt she didn’t really lose the fight and we both enjoyed the interaction during the fight.

[wolf359]

One question for original poster. How did you go about finding the professional to stage the fight with? Curious where you started and how you selected the right one for the fun. Thanks!

[ChandieBee]

@ wolf359, I believe I went through sessiongirls.com. You can try to find professionals traveling through your area to wrestle with.

[wolf359]

Thanks! We’ll have a look. 

[Nadine Archer]

Going to keep tabs in here

[ChandieSavage]

Not so new anymore... but back from a hiatus.

Long enough that I forgot the email I used for my old account... 

[cfight]

This is a good topic. Nothing is more sexier than to have your wife/gf talk about a fight she would have against someone both of you know. I have fantasize my wife fighting a couple of women, but if I mentioned their names my wife would say "are you in love with her." That killed the moment.