I don’t think it is fair to say weak or scared like it is judging a person, anyone entering a fight that is not a little scared is either drunk or high, anyone about to really fight no rules and with some rules goes through fear, as for weak, anyone can be beaten, it’s knowing where to hurt or get them the most that takes the fight out of them and rather quit, as for letting down your partner/lover what have you, the fact you stood your ground, fought, then win or lose you already proved your courage to get face to face, naturally a win is better but it NEVER says your less or don’t love them more, any fight as we all know someone’s going to lose or get the worse of it it’s part of the fear