You could try Empress Asia - look her up on the female wrestler list
https://www.wb270.com/frames.htmShe's based in New York, getting on in years, but still super fit, strong, and very experienced wrestler, and very sensual.
Of course, you'll have to pay her, but she's definitely worth it.
The list is good for seeking out other possibilities in New York too.
Keep us posted if anything works out!
Gus