[jdppin]

Ladies I'm interested to know how fighting might effect your desire for sex just after a fight.  First of all does a fight strengthen your desire for sex afterwards and second, does the outcome strengthen or lessen your desire. I will appreciate hearing from you ladies.  Thank you.

[Stunning Steph]

I think it's going to depend very much on the fight.


In my experience fighting can be a turn on but it depends on the format and the relationship of those involved in it. Getting mugged for example is unlikely to result in someone feeling particularly romantic.

[DoubleT2]

 When we are preparing for, or arranging a fight, Tim and I will temporarily abstain from sex.  We believe it saves the energy we will need for battle, and also increases our senses to primordial levels. Once we’re in the presence of our adversaries, the primal urges of dominance and mating drive us into lust-filled frenzy that only victory can satisfy. A victory that culminates in sex for the triumphant, more often than not in full display of the vanquished. It’s a feeling like no other! Tammy

[jon222]

Tammy would you have sex regardless of whether you won or lost?  If yes how is the experience different after you win vs after you lost?

[Zaire]

 I know the question was for the ladies,but I do have a comment. My wife and I are Black, and we were visiting a white couple that have been friends of ours for a few years. There has always been good natured flirting going on. Well, the wives got into a heated argument that resulted in them fighting. The agreement was the winners husband would have sex with the loser while her husband watched. That white girl kicked my wife's ass, and as I was forced to watch I could plainly see that my wife loved every minute of the sexual encounter .Since I was SO turned on from the fight, I did not mind the sex I saw!!!

[mauler maureen]

For me catfighting and sex have gone hand in hand for as long as I can recall. That's why I always want to fight in front of a male audience. Once I see the bulge sticking out of their pants while watching me fight, I know what I'm in for later on. When I see the guys getting excited, I get excited as well.

[jessiefite]

If I win, I feel cathartically released.  I'm not interested in sex at that moment.  Later on, yes, but not when I am already feeling kind of euphoric.

If I lose, I feel hurt, vulnerable, humiliated, needy and very sexy.  I want some hetero oral sex pretty soon after losing and I feel like it is some of the most emotionally connected sex that one can have.