from my experiences that is a very wide open arrangement you and who ever you are going to have a match with agrees on, i have had other women ask if i wouldn't mind developing a scene for nothing more than in our minds (not acted fully out) where for example we say it is between a secretary and a wife, or 2 nurses or maids so on, we will use attire to fit that scene , but i have used everything from bra and thong to wearing faux furs , to bikini's and body suits , if your new to it some offer will sound off the wall at times and others will want just bra and panties or hosiery , the best thing you can do for you is be open to at the very least hear what the other fighter wants or suggests, sometimes "playing along" can lead to a lot of referrals for future matches, hope that helps and lots of luck.